I had planned to make this 2 separate posts; dating pre-trans and post-trans. Well that was the working titles, but those posts wouldn’t have helped anything. That’s living in the past, more on that in a different post, and I’ve been trying to get out of that habit.
My relationship now, well that will be helpful. It’s not my first, but probably my 3rd serious relationship and my best. Before I met my sunshine I was married for almost 11 years, and that’s all you need to know about my past.
It was around July that I met this wonderful woman. We were at the same event but we were with different groups of people, I honestly dont remember the meeting that much. But the next month at the same event we actually met and talked. We were part of a small group and we talked the night away. We started dating after exchanging emails. We didn’t last long because I wasn’t in a good place, but we left as friends.
A couple months later she reached out to me. We started talking and became friends again. We hung out almost all the time. She then told me she still had feelings for me and wanted to try again.
That was two years ago. We live together, with 5 cats. We love each other and are making this life together work. It’s not always easy, but most of the time it is. She has the uncanny ability to brighten up my life. She makes me happy. I can honestly say that I have never laughed harder or smiled so much before. I am truly blessed to have such a beautiful and supportive woman in my life.
This is for you, my sunshine. I may not always be able to show you or tell you what you mean to me.
I love you.